Why are some people more successful than the others? You see, you don't decide your future. You decide your habits and your habits decide your future.
No one succeeds overnight, and no one fails overnight, success is nothing more than some of small effort, repeated day in and day out today.
I want to share with you the 10 successful habits that I have learned and developed over the years. Habit.
10 Habits Highly of Successful People
1. Successful people take 100% responsibility.
Ability for their own life, is he? I was struggling, I was in my 20s. I had just failed my 13th businesses.
I had started in fail at 13 businesses and back, then I was lost and I was blaming, I was blaming everything else and when I met my first Mentor, but he sat down with me, and he asked me the question.
What's not working? That's it. Everything is not working, right? I'm not making enough money, right? I mean debt.
I had all these failures. I don't understand. Customers are so cheap. The government. I don't know why write the tax so high, everything and economy is bad and I was just pointing fingers at everyone else.
I wasn't taking responsibility for my own life. My mentor said to me unless and until you take 100% responsibility for your own life, then you're not going to be successful.
I thought to myself. Maybe he's right. Maybe at the time. I thought maybe not 100%, but maybe I'm at fault.
This is not maybe because you chose to start those businesses, you chose those Partners, you chose to spend your time on this every single decision you made on your own right to the best of your knowledge, but still you chose what happened. You chose and you act on it.
And from then on I learned to take responsibility, the buck stops with me.
If it's meant to be, is up to me, and it's something that you need to think about. Because, laying people playing people, you can make money or you can produce results. You cannot do both.
So that's habit. Number one, take 100% responsibility for your own life.
2. Have a number two and that is, you have to decide, exactly.
You want most people in life? Don't get what they want because they don't know what they want. And my mentor said to me. Well, then you need to set a goal.
Now up to that point. I haven't set any goals. He said I want you to set a goal. What is it that you really want at the time as a young person?
I thought my dream was I wanted to buy the Art Exhibit master. Red Bull, three engine. And I thought if I could get that car, I have made it right. There was my dream. There was my only dream but I thought it would be so cool if I could drive that car.
And he said, good said, there's a goal make that that's what you want to do, right? Okay, great.
So now from kind of like, you know, I'm doing all these things and I'm starting all these businesses and I wanted to provide for my mom, but I needed something to motivate myself. I needed.
Think that I could see that I could feel that I could just focus on that was it for me because at the time, I was driving the master hatchback last two, three, right. And I wanted to upgrade, that was my dream.
So I have a number two, you have to know exactly what you want. Once you know exactly what you want.
3. Have a number three is, you have to believe it is possible. That's it.
You just have to believe that it is possible, not just for others, but for yourself now for me back then because I was already driving the master 3. So in my mind it was in like I was trying to get a Lamborghini or Ferrari.
I was like, okay, it's an upgrade right? If I could focus that maybe just maybe is possible for me.
So it doesn't seem like so far-fetched. It doesn't seem like you're not living in the basement with your mom and not, you want it.
I'm driving a Back. And I could upgrade to a sports car. That was it. So you have to believe it's possible. It's possible for you.
Napoleon Hill talks about this in thinking Grow Rich, whatever your mind can conceive and believe you can achieve and is very, very true.
You have to first believe that you could do it have a number for Highly Successful People. They visualize success.
So here's what I did once I know that this is my goal, once I take 100% responsibility. Responsibility that I can make it happen, and I believe that I can make it happen.
I visualize success. So I cut out a page from a magazine that had the car take on it and I put it on my vision board.
I will look at it every day and it would visualize what it looks like. Right? I would close my eyes and I could see the the interior of the car that I can see the stick, right? I could see the whole Car and see the interior I can.
I can feel that lettuce seat and I would visualize, and visualize and visualize until it becomes. So vivid, in my mind, that I could see it.
I could like a smelled, I could feel it, right? I can fit this. I deserve this. This is what I could do and I do that every day visualize my Success. So that's happened.
Number four you have to visualize your success.
5. Have a number five successful people act as if so when I hang out with my friends at a time and we will see the car in I would tell them hey, that's my car right there. And they thought again you crazy. What are you talking about? That's not your car. I said, that's my car. Do you drive the hatchback? No. No, that is my car every single time.
I was acting as if I wasn't lying, I wasn't lying to anybody. I was conditioning myself. I was acting as, if the result has already been accomplished.
So I act and talk in a way that you know what? It's mine. It's mine already, it done. Is it done to you? So acting us if see, most people? They wait till that, they see the result and then they say, oh, yeah, then they feel that they deserve.
No, first, you have to believe that you deserve it first. Before the result would come along is the other way around have a number successful people are willing to pay the price.
So it's one thing to dream is wanting to believe, but at the end of the day, you have to do something right? You have to be willing to pay the price. And in this case, because it's simply a car, it's quite easy to calculate.
So I found out exactly in Precisely how much it's going to cost this car? Right? And I thought to myself. Okay, it's going to cost me this much down payment. That's gonna cost me this much in monthly payment. Okay.
So what I needed to do is I need to focus on generating enough income to pay for that and I was willing to pay the price.
So when my friends, when they were going to pubs when they were partying, when they were just wasting time, I was working. I was just working day-in day-out.
Long hours every single day. No, no break, no time off. I would just focus because I was willing to pay the price.
So one of the questions that you have to ask yourself, is what price are you willing to pay for Success?
What are you willing to give up? What are you willing to sacrifice? Because it is always a trade-off. It's always a trade-off.
7. Have a number seven successful people. People feel the fear and they do it.
Anyway. See a lot of people, they think that successful people have no fears. Of course, we have fears. Of course, we have doubts. Of course, we are afraid to make a decision.
Sometimes we human beings. The difference is we don't let the fear stop us. We don't let the fear dictate what we are or what? We're not going to do. We feel the fear, you feel the fear, but we do it.
Anyway, I remember I had to pick up the phone. I had to call business owners, had to go and get.
Was I afraid you bet. Was I nervous? You bet. Do I like those rejections? No, of course. Not. Right, of course not but I feel the fear and do it.
Anyway, I do it. Anyway, I don't do it. Anyway, just keep at it, keep at it and keep
8. That have a number eight successful people. Seek mentorship.
You see unsuccessful people very often. They have a big ego and please listen to me. Your ego is not your Amigo. The ego is not your friend.
Ego will destroy. You see, when I was doing it my way, right? I lent my pride, my ego stopped me from seeking mentorship until I found my first Mentor.
Now, that may or may not be the answer for everybody. I'm just telling you that what the answer for me finding my mentor. Finding that first mentor. He turned my life around seeking mentorship.
I don't have all the answers. I don't know everything. There's no way someone knows everything and the more you learn, the more, you realize how little that, you know, so my mentor was giving me the mindset and the skill set that I needed to achieve my goals to buy that all extinct does that mean I don't have failures.
Of course. I have failures. But success is going from failure to failure.
9. So have a number 9 successful people have enthusiasm, you notice high-income people. They have high energy.
It can get it done. It cannot make it happen then lack, the Vitality energy, right? The enthusiasm, the stamina to make things happen and how to acomplish anything if you don't approach anything with passion enthusiasm, right?
You may not be the best added right now, but if you are enthusiastic and you believe and your passion, incredibly passionate about what you do going to make it happen, so that's a very, very key habit that kind of makes everything work and that leads to the last happen and that's happened.
10. Successful people commit to constant Improvement.
You see, After I did all these things. I act as if I pay the price, I seek mentorship I kept going. And finally, I got the car and I was so excited.
I went to the dealership and by that time I had already test drove the car multiple times.
I knew exactly what I was getting myself into and I walk into the dealership. And the car salesman was telling me. He has never sold a car this fast.
I drove the car off the dealership. It was fascinating is and I thought and I was excited. It was great. Right? And I was driving the car right off the parking lot. And you know how I felt, I felt that I've seen this.
I've experienced this many many times. I felt that just like it. You know, what this is. This is my car because I think it so many times.
I was actually incredibly calm. This is how it's supposed to be, and it's great. It's like a Deja Vu, that kind of feeling, because I've seen it in my mind so many times, I packed,
It's as if I knew, I knew it's mine. And when it's mine, okay, it's my what's the big deal? Right? And then I said the next goal, right? I want that.
I want to get the next car and I know at the time, I'm not interested those things anymore.
By the time I thought, I'll get the next car and it's Audi R8 and on and on and on in the Bentley and all those things, right?
So successful, people seek mentorship. They also never stop improving. It's always about becoming better. Becoming a better version of yourself.
If you want to be healthier, what do you need to do? You will study nutrition. You will study Fitness, right? If you want to a good cook. You will learn recipes. You'll learn from other chefs.
You were brainstorming ideas is no different. If you want to be successful, you have to make that a subject that you study.
It has to be something that you take seriously is something that you put some effort in.
So, comment below and share with me, which one of these successful habits that you are going to implement.
Maybe you won't Implement all of them at once. But what is that one habit? That want to implement today, comment below and let me know.